Understanding Your Child's Emotional Milestones

Emotional development is just as important as learning ABCs. Here's what to expect at different ages:

Ages 2-3 (Play Group) Big emotions with limited vocabulary. Tantrums are normal — they're not manipulating you, they're overwhelmed. Help by naming emotions: 'You feel frustrated because the block fell down.'

Ages 3-4 (Nursery) Beginning of empathy. They notice when friends are sad. They start playing cooperatively, not just side by side. Encourage sharing feelings through stories and role-play.

Ages 4-5 (Lumo Junior) More complex emotions emerge — jealousy, pride, embarrassment. They can start using words instead of actions to express feelings. Teach calming strategies: deep breaths, counting, squeezing a stress ball.

Ages 5-6 (Lumo Senior) Developing self-regulation. They can wait their turn, handle minor disappointments, and show genuine kindness. They understand that others have different feelings.

How to Support at Home: • Validate feelings before correcting behaviour • Model emotional expression yourself • Read books about emotions together • Create a 'calm corner' at home • Avoid dismissing fears or sadness

Remember: A child who feels understood grows beautifully.